Guest over a year ago. pouts over a year ago. Dude, your having sex at 14? Thats classed as rape! It's illegal, you have to be 16 or older to have sex legally otherwise, if caught you'll be in big trouble. If your having sex, you could get pregnant. NERE over a year ago.
First time can be really awkward or really smooth. Just depends on how you treat her. me and my boo have been going out for a couple of months now and before we had sex she told id better be good in bed because no man has ever given heer the big O, well the first time we had sex, missionary possition her bum elevated just a few ins from the bed with a pillow, deep penetration but with, slow very slow rythmic movements not up and down but side to side and round and round with my pubic area gently rubbing on her clit with every turn, minutes later she got her first big O.
Me and my girlfriend just started to have sex. I want to make her feel even more pleased with me than I did already. The practicality of making a girl orgasm? I guess just keep jerkin off in the shower dude. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 years we only started doing it this last year. Iv only came times.
It seems I only cum on top cuz he fingers my sweet spot while he thrusts. Cuz he is like a God with his hands but he needs a lesson in the sack. I really hope these help hey ironic enough my gf says the same thing bout me lol. she says she feels it best when she on top cuz i can work my fingers like crazy n she loves when i eat her out but she says when im on top she dont feel nothin.
wht would be your advice to me as a guy? Her g spot is located 1. Well unless you are unfortunate to be that small you should not have that problem. My rule of thumb is give about mind, trust me sounds like a long time, but it will be worth it. AND STOP CKING THE TURKEY!!!! Every time you keep fingerings to see if she is ready, but will only delay her by putting the pressure of what you want to get at. So wait for her to be beging for you.
Great tips, Carlos. Thanks a lot. I will be sure to try these when my girlfriend of just over years comes to visit me. That was a BAD idea!!! Thank you again for opening my eyes to my own ignorance and now hopefully I will be able to really make her happy! that seems to be my problem! All I can think of is everything but, and that little noise I just heard or did I hear anything at all was that the kids?
and it takes FOREVER! My gf hardly reas climax despite how hard i try.
Wat do i do? Not true! I had an African woman who was castrated as a child. NO clit at all BUT, i knew where it was from experience. The location is still active.
8. Maximise missionary to drive her wild. When you assume the (missionary) position, curl your arms around her shoulders with your weight on your elbows, and move your st close to her Author: Annie Hayes You can achieve the same effect when she's on top by propping yourself up on your elbows, which places your abdomen in closer contact with her clitoris. ) Pay more attention to her butt You can stimulate her clit during sex, or whilst fingering her, using another finger. You can learn exactly how to do this in Video 4 of Squirting Triggers Training Course. This works incredibly well to make her cum because you have the double stimulation on the g-spot and clit at the same time
I licked her into a coma still. Besides, women can cum two ways. penetration is one of them. Not all women cum the same way tho. some are much harder than others. yeah, even if the clit is gone, the G-Spot is still there so vaginal plateau is totally possible. WTH is wrong with me? Maybe only four times a month if even that. I just want him to make me feel like I make him feel.
I hope these techniques work! I look forward to not only spicing up my sex life to what it was before but to finally having a true orgasm! Hopefully it goes well! The G-spot is located roughly - 4 ins back from the opening of the vagina canalso yeah it is about the size of the penis. But not the way you make it sound, anyone who is at least ins the average size of a finger can help a woman reach an orgasm.
Besides, having a good sized tool does not guarantee success in sexual intercourse. If that is all people should rely on then why not just use a dildo? People have sex because there are certain unique things we all do while in motion. Others problems arise when the two cannot get their movements to sync with each other and create the connection needed for an orgasm to be read and experienced.
Like who Robert, you? Many times over when a woman cannot reach orgasm it is based on several factors and not solely on the man and his skills and abilities. Women need to take responsibility for their orgasms as much as men do about their expression of skills. Your comment clearly reflects your ignorance and self-centered nature. The making of a good lover huh can you pheel the sarcasm? Or your bf, for that matter. it is not about the clit or penissize, but about stroke skills too hit the deep spot, the g-spot, the legs of the clitoris.
sensations are starting in the mind. and you can make them as strong as you want to, even orgasms on command. or multiple orgasms on command during intercourse. without rubbing. Marcus its nothing about your penis size. before I even came to this. website I had my girl having the big O in 5 minutes buy doing number 2 but with one leg on the sholder my penis is only 6 ins. and ins around.
so its nothing about penis size. you got to know what your doing. For me I use hype n reputation to help relax my women. Only if they are in pain or discomfort to say anything during sex otherwise no talkin loll b4 hand n i start with caressing them finding what body part drives me wild n complementing them on thier body.
I then finger ass n puss Ieven kiss n lick all over n eat out n rim her. After that with kissing her I find a nice position like above n I finish cummin in her or on the face Inormally go for round 2 immediatly witch I think is a turn on for them n surprise lol n Ilast longer 2nd time.
Even try sensory deprivation its a turn on. Fav in a blind fold. relax, stand on top of him, let him go down on you, you go down on him, play around, do pauses, restart, drink wine, kiss and the rest will eventually come.
You have to WANT her to feel EVERY bit as good as you do.
And besides 0 seconds? You can get better sex with a Vegas hooker. wow 0 seconds?
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good luck getting a girl for any other reason. Also, you should lay on bed and tell her to come above you This is one most amazing position that I like to do with my girlfriend. And yeah, she loves it too.!! ok, This women is 40 and im about to be I have had a pretty good sex life so far but I am a little worried if I can please her or not. Any older women want to give me tips on what I could do?
i remember those days when milfs used to use me for my youthful vigor. make sure you sweet talk her and ask her what she wants. PLAY DUMB. let her think she has you by the string, then have her screaming for hours after using the 2nd position. i would suggest then having her suck you off, then cuddle and talk with her for 20 minutes, she will less emotionally attad.
Or just keep yours eyes up and pay attention to her. I personally lost my virginity at 19 to a 40 year old woman. if your like me. yo yea these positions are great but three can be a bit tricky if u are really well hung it can hurt her or if she is real sensitive she will just shudder when it feels good and loose the timing. another great position for guy and girl is with the gys legs on the outside of the girls. from behind or in front. its nice to just ride out until you both cum but be warned if PE is a problem than this might not be good for u.
WowAfta giving ma gal alot of foreplay 4 about 0 min plus sum oral sex,i used 1 ,at d same time i was slitly biting around her neck n ear, afta about just 5 min of penetrationGush,she blew it,ma foam was sucked n her leg cant just stop vibrating. I let her relax 4 sum time. I went anoda round but dis tym using 2 ,God,she was shouting ma name i kept on banging,not only did she explode but she gave me briuse al ova she almost removed ma flesh out. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for two month now and she likes alot when having sex.
I always make sure i ate myself with diffent articles about how to make sex better. Am telling you she begs for it. Guys should not rush for it even if you are freaky thirsty,when together make her relax, stroke her for from her toes to head with your magic fingers, caress her body and lasty concentrate on her sensitive spot.
For me, I get turned off when guys just wanna jam it in asap. so so true no man ever made me orgasm until i was 0 years old he is 52 guess he mastered how to make A woman feel safe, ie he never just pounded.
And he held me And talked to afterward. Im hooked will never give him up. Are you fucking kidding me? Old balls, slapping against yousurprised he didnt have a heart attack. find a younger man you pig! Im looking forward the day you will turn 52 Do you think you will stop having sex at 59 and became gross? Shame on you boy!
Hi guys, I am siding with Kiki.
I am 6 years old, still have regular sex, and believe me, most of the woman I do it with is between 0 and 40, and it is amazing the stories they tell. Most younger guys has never learned the art of lovemaking. Wisdom comes with age, and once you have made an effort to understand how the female body and mind works, you will be rewarded triple for you patience.
And remember also this, what happens before sex, is just as important after it, for that is when the real bonding and caring take place. Age is a concept of mind; experience and knowledge makes you a master. Make you woman feel safe, relaxed and wanted, and above all, listen to her. after all, without the woman, we all will just become a bunch of wankers.
If you do not start telling him things you like it wont happen. So start giving simple instructions while doing some dirty talk. And when you are wanting to have sex but have not engaged yet in foreplay mention you want to try a new position and see what he thinks.
And if it is working tell him that it is great while he is doing it.
Before having sexwhen you are lying on bed with him. Give him a soft kiss and ask him to do something new. Convince him by saying that, you both will get bored if you keep on doing those old stuffs. Ask him to finger you, and so on. And when you are done with it write to me. You should just tell him the truth because he was probably thinking the same thing!
You should just tell him instead of posting it on the Internet. trust me, been there. btw, ask him what he wants, it might be that he can improve, but also you. I m a boy and soon going to have sex with my gf n we both are virgin so I m planing to use these three position for the first time I hope these will work but I have doubts that its her first time will she get orgasm or make me stop because of pain she gonnaso being a virgin can she get orgasm in first time only or not?
Why rush into having sex when the 2 of yous have never had it. Take your time no need to rush.
When you reach "WomanHood", which is basically when your body is ready to have a baby. And Your G spot, you'll have to find out what that is on your own, (I already know but searching up the Sex topic may help you) You have to hit your G spot the right way and then you'll "Squirt which, AKA is Cum. But some girls never cum for some reason Lastly, just go for it. Thrust downwards, hard and with a steady pace so that it's consistent. Try and maintain the thrusting for 5 minutes, if you can do that she'll have a squirting orgasm (that will make her cum) in no time. QUICK TIP: If you want to speed up the time it takes her to orgasm You could try positions (ck out this list of + sex positions) that offer more clitoral stimulation such as the Coital Alignment Technique or Thigh Tide, use a vibrator, add a position pillow (some even have slots for your toy!), or make other adjustments so you can cum during sex
Wait until your both ready. Every girl is different. Make her feel relaxed!! Orgasm NEVER happens first time. Do missionary first.
The first time for a girl. ANY girl Is painful. Very painful. Do not have her get on top, it would be like a pole ripping through her body. Just slow and hard and simple positions. ck your facts dude. Wife was a virgin - VERY fearful of anticipating pain.
Took almost a month before she could relax enough. She was on top - could control everything. It went very well. A little blood, a little discomfort. No real pain. Definitely not true if you can get her relaxed enough and use the proper tec. Make sure u work slow and let her get use to it but slowly get fastener.
She has only ever orgasmed by mechanical means and then allows me to do my thing. Love her to bits though, but I feel my 4. Anyway, thought I would share my experience with you all and finish by saying that a relationship without intimacy creates disrespect, anger and wandering eyes. Poor guy, I totally agree. Wish my man had your attitude. He is a good man, dont get me wrong. I at least feel safe and happy to grow old with this man.
Ive had both before, only both these great qualities were not in the same man :. My girlfriend never cums. Is this really important or are there other ways to please a girl?
Coming from me, a girl yes. You can actually try to make her squirt. just finger her. Keep rubbing that part consistently so that your fingers dont get tired. You might feel her getting tighter, make sure you tell her to just let it out. I totally agree! My ex and I had the most amazing sex. Just speak to her Calmly. It was enjoyable for the both of us, and something I will never forget. I find what makes me orgasm the most and feels the best and actually makes me reach a squirting frenzy is just simply girl-on-top.
I arch my back and I giver! Hard and Fast! Then Ill place my feet flat on the bed beside his hips and I go again. Thats if my bf hasnt already came by then. heres another sweet position me and my husband came up with. sit on the edge of the bathtub with your lower back, not your butt! lean back as far as you can without falling, and have him penetrate you while hes on his knees.
works great. gets me to cum in around a minute or less :. a little variety to that would be to wrap your legs around his waist instead of putting them on the floor. even better!!!! I want to try that third one out though. Looks type legit!!! my girlfriend just lost her virginity a couple weeks ago.
is it because of how recently she was a virgin and its normal? any and all advice would be great :. It always depends on the girl man.
my current Gf did but my ex did not until the time. Nothing in her about clitoral action. Also agree that just saying okay that was cool but I got stuff to do is no bueno. You can easily come with only penetration. if your bf had some stroke skills, he could easy with his shaft rub against your clit when he penetrates you.
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You people have terrible language skills. I guess I must be a freak caus I think the longer the better And I have done all those positions regularly and nothing Feels amazing, but nothing has pushed me over the edge so far.
Any other tips? Me and a one night stand lasted for 5 hours not straight we went out for a refreshening smoke twice and had a few short breaks.
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We only did positions though. classic missionary wish her legs crossed over mu buttwith her ontop and her leaning against a wall. lets test your advise. Thats really hard, dude. When your in the foreplay though.
definitely smootch her neck and bite it. Fingering: work your way through slowly. Oral sex breathe sexily into her pubic area and first lick thhe lips, then her clitoris When licking her clitoris try and lick the alphabet. they lose their mind. These are awsome. Put a full proof one is lay her on her side curled up like your spooning. Enter her in this position. Then rotate her top leg slowly as your fucking her.
It s important to take your time. Dont get in to much ofa hurry. Not only has she had multiple orgasoms but youve just hit her g spot in a whole new way. Never forget you and niether will her riends.
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okay, well i love when my husband last a long time and then theres nights when im happy that he doesnt. but i hate when hes all ready, and it takes me awhile to fully get there you knowladies? well we start and he finishes within minutes i swear, that gets on my nerves! so gentlemen make sure you can please her aswell. but anyways thats just sometimes! and girls for one loves when a guy is slow and gentle with everything! try the lupus postion it is so intimant.
dont be afraid to explore her and yourself. thats a huge turn on for any women! OMG tried position 2 today with my girlfriend and so fucking deep and her having her legs like that means she is super tight but was so good she could only do it for a bit then she put her legs down and very soon after massive orgasm was so sexy.
To the guys who are saying that the girls have lasted no longer then 0 minutes they are most likely faking it, girls only generally fake it when they get bored, and when you are bad. You need to take up the advice in this page but getting her relaxed, and occasionally whispering in her ears. but i have my own trick to can make any fuckin women get squirt. we are both clean but she says she doesnt like to orgasm. I know im not pro but i never heard of me being bad at bed or not having a girl orgasm, Shes todally diffrent and i have had sex with 15 girls, anything yall can say?
I know it may take a while before I can do anything larger than my finger. What advise do you have. Also what brand of condoms works best without the flavors and colors and ribbed and all that stuff? Just in case she wants me to try.
I need some good pointers! If you see blood, you popped her rry. Tell her it will feel good if you keep going. The kind of lube you should use should be water-based. Easy to find in a drug store or health clinic. As are the regular condoms. Make sure you get your size though, you dont want it to be too tight for yourself. In my own opinion, I suggest you get cked by a professional and just go all natural. Use lube, but condoms eventually get dry which might hurt her.
Make sure shes relaxed because if you just go at it, tension or stress might be another reason why shes so tight.
Let her be on top, and just lay there and let her do it how she wants. It fucking HURT. THIS WOULDD BE SO WICKED SEXY!!!! But my girlfriend is short : llets just hope i can reach, i mean im an 8 andd.
idk but ANYY more other helpfful fantstic tips wouuld be appreciated. I hope some of your tips, will help me solve the problem because i keep giving myself the excuse, that it is because she was recently a virgin. I hope that the key is just an extra good foreplay to get her relaxed and ready, then bringing her to the edge of a clitoral-orgasm or giving her one, and then intercourse by doing number 1 or 2.
Well atleast i hope thats the solution, i hope that she isnt uncapable of orgasming :. Almost every woman has to learn how. It may take some time. wrong, and I was too preoccupied thinking about if it was gonna fall out to enjoy myself. Actually not all women want their man to leave them after having sex. This is way too cool!! A couple of twists for advanced graduate level Ninjas.
Slight variations on Position 1 Advanced doggy and her riding you allows you to have your hands and mouth free. a Use mouth to play with the tits and suck on them and vibrate tongue on the tits b Use hands to gently massage the breasts, or play with the tits squeeze but not to hard. Now this is what separates the men from the boys-but you need to have agreement from her-several times.
i Massage her buns and then focus on one spot. Then slightly flick middle finger and thumb on that spot to see if she is ready-if she moans, ask her repeatedlyif she agrees, give her a little slap on her butt. She will cum loudly. When you spank the butt her vagina contracts and both of you feel it. Start lightly and ask permission after every one-and make it a bit harder. A few spanks will blow her mind. Note: make sure you have permission before you begin the spanking process.
ii Take your thumb and lick it, and place on her clit and gently rub it. She will cum as never before. iii For the Master Ninja-take your middle finger and suck on it or ask her to suck on it, and then gently place do not inserton her anus.
Just a little pressure will make her come. After about three minutes the anus will relax, and then you can insert with vaseline - once finger is in there, use other hand to play with her clit, while thrusting with your penis- she will remember the orgasm for a lifetime!
Its quite interesting to learn more from you all. I think the wont be easy for my gf. But the 1 n 2 is a bit painful to her because of my dick,but she enjoy it alot. Thats why she can waite for months to have me again. Mmmmm not a fan of the first 2. Not cool. This would be great if everyone were built as strongly as the illustrations. Some of us with bigger body shapes have to be more creative. Nice thing is, my man is amazing and has lots of staying power and skill : Some of us girls could give you guys a real run for their money LOL.
She said it was the first time she had multiple orgasms. But I added a little trick. We were doing position 1 advanced doggyI used my fingers to stimulate her clit WHILE I thrusted. She came SO hard.
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Yeah great positions,unless you have a curved penis. She says all of these positions hurt her. Does she just have a shallow vagina or is this normal? All I know is all girls come in different sizes if you know what I mean, plus she may be overly sensitive down below. TRUST ME. My last G-F also had problems with larger guys not a problem with me being only average. YOu need to figure what the actual problem is - is it actual length or tightness or what? if its length then you just need ot be careful to figure out how deep you can safely go and control yourself to do it.
You will both get your orgasms. She may be very tight around the entrance to her vagina a previous G-F of mine was.
Not sure of there is any answer to that one.
The thing with women is to notice their mood, their body movements, are they all energetic or are they laid back, or appear fatigued once you have figured these things out. Then this will determine how much foreplay is necessary. A lot of touching, feeling, kissing and licking or straight hard sex. There is one orgasm a woman can not fake and that is a squirting or ejaculating orgasm.
Some women can only come with a clitoris, enjoying penetration afterwards, without a climax. Nothing wrong with that! If your partner prefers clitoris orgasm, don't rush and make her scream just by touching and licking her tiny clit. Ask her about her preferences Personal experience, my ex can feel both, and as mentioned before, some men are shooters, so that possibly has something to do with it. I take place to be one of those to make sure that it probably has something to do with it. An amusing arbitrary tale for comic relief that this thread reminded me of, I was with a girl as well as took out and Lots of girls have this happen, and some guys, so don't worry. You might want to try make yourself cum by yourself. I also noticed you didn't mention the clit, maybe you don't know about it so here it is: the clit is that sensitive bump near the top of your vulva. you can cum a
Also if their eyeballs go in the back of their head and their body is convulsing those are all good signs that she is not faking. The more build-up such as conversation especially listening to her, stimulates a woman and the more kissing, caressing, licking you do all over her body will drive up the anticipation and intensity of her orgasms.
Once you have given her that first orgasm usually a clitoral then those that follow should be easier. One thing if you give her a clitoral, g spot, squirting and anal all at the same time she will be screaming your name and she will come back for more if that is what you desire. The main thing is, reading them will become second nature.
But you need to practice. In fact, the less you actually THINK and the more you just ACT is actually better. in my not so humble opinion, anyways. I would like to expand on this post. For the record, last night I gave my woman two very powerful vaginal orgasms in a matter of minutes. She was shaking and throbbing for half an hour afterwards as I held her. Nobody can. There are lots of women out there who, for various reasons, cannot orgasm. To assume that any woman you meet is ready to squirt all over you is dangerous.
I have found its much better to wait until I am sure she is able to have an orgasm whether or not she actually has before is not the same thing as if she can before treating her that way.
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Definitely a woman must be relaxed and turned on as conditions to orgasm but there is so much more to it than this. In fact, Mr. The more mind-blowing the orgasm, the more emotions she feels, hormones she excretes like Oxytocin!
she might even cry real heartfelt tears. Baby I am amazed at how connected I feel to you! Because you enjoyed the sex and you enjoyed that she allowed you to be part of her very special orgasm and trusts you at least enough for that. You DO NOT want her to feel used, slutty, or regretful that she did this right? As a human being you do not want to hurt another human being in the first place. Further, if she feels at all used or slutty this could jeopardize your ability to make her orgasm a second time, and runs the risk of her not feeling comfortable orgasming with other guys either.
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Real female orgasms tips! September 27, How to not be a jealous boyfriend? July 24, Leave a Reply Cancel reply Comment. When I finally had a chance that was too good to pass up and felt I was ready, I went down on her and penetrated her to TWO powerful orgasms in under 10 minutes.
But I have concerned it was a fluke. I repeated this with the same girl several times, but worried if I would be able to repeat the results with other women but I did. Scientists put her in an MRI like a machine, studying her brain waves, and they were, in fact, identical to the overwhelming hurricane of brain activity that occurs during orgasm.
She was having an orgasm just from thought. Talk dirty during foreplay, and during sex when her mind is into it, and she lets loose, then orgasm will occur quicker. This is also a great way to know what she likes. have you ever asked what turns her on? Different strokes for different folks. This might be shocking news but newsflash, vaginas are not made from cookie cutters, each one is unique in its own way.
Not only on a physical level is each woman different but there is also the mental ct to consider. So, just ask. Your own libido will influence her levels of arousal. This tip is especially important if you have problems lasting long.